More and more porn scenes feature some light choking during sex. Why? Probably because we’re so desensitized that seeing sex without any choking won’t get us off.
Porn videos aren’t just for masturbatory purposes. Sometimes they inspire us to try new sexual acts. And since hot babes getting choked is on the rise in porn, I can only assume that you’re all considering choking or getting choked sometime in your sexual future.
With that in mind, I’m going to tell you everything you need to know about choking during sex.
What you need to know about choking during sex by
1. Choking is an act of dominance.
Most women want an alpha male in bed. Why else do you think Fifty Shade of Grey sold approximately 7 billion copies (yes, that means everyone on Earth has a copy)?
To assert yourself as an alpha male, can you think of a better way than wrapping your fingers around a woman’s throat? When you hold a woman’s neck, you’re essentially holding her life in your hands, creating a sense of helplessness. Thus you’ve established your dominance.
2. There’s a right way to choke someone during sex
Most guys, when attempting to choke their partner, clumsily grab their lady’s neck and press on the windpipe. That’s not erotic, that’s just painful.
To properly choke a woman during sex, reach for the carotid artery. The carotid arteries are located on either side of the neck and carry oxygen-rich blood from the heart to the brain. Compressing the carotid arteries can cause the sudden loss of oxygen to the brain and the accumulation of carbon dioxide can increase feelings of giddiness, light-headedness, and pleasure, all of which will heighten masturbatory sensations.
When compressing the carotid arteries, your lady has about 3 to 5 seconds before she passes out. But in those 3 to 5 seconds, her pleasure will increase immeasurably.
Now, the goal here is to increase the sexual pleasure without inflicting any harm. So make sure that a safe-word or safe-signal is established so your lady can bail out of the choking any time she feels uncomfortable.
It will take some practice until you get the perfect balance of applying pressure and timing, but that will come in time and with lots of open communication with the person you’re choking during sex.
3. Hands only
Don’t use ropes, belts or leashes to choke your partner. They can be tricky to remove if things go awry. When you stick to just using your hand, your rough sex experiment will be more fun because you won’t be in danger.
4. Safe words!
We touched on this in point #2, but it deserves its own mention because establishing a safe word is so important. Since you’re cutting oxygen from your partner’s brain, she needs to be able to make you stop whenever she doesn’t feel comfortable.
5. It’s not for everybody!
Despite the rave reviewers getting choked during sex gets from some women, it’s really not for everyone. Sexual preferences are such an individual thing that you just have to respect everyone’s wishes. Before you go choking every woman you sleep with, talk to them about how they feel about it.
Maybe they’ve always wanted to try but never felt comfortable with their previous sexual partners? Maybe they like to get choked during sex but weren’t sure how to broach the topic with you? Maybe they tried it once, didn’t like but they’re open to trying it again? Maybe they know someone who died from auto-erotic asphyxiation and will never try it?
I don’t know and neither do you. That’s why you have to check!
Of course, if you’re too shy to ask them directly, I recommend placing a hand on their neck during sex. If they say, “Choke me!” then you’re in business. However, if they say, “Get your hand off my neck,” then get your hand off their damn neck!
The point is, just because you’ve seen it in porn, it doesn’t mean it’s for everyone. But if you want to try choking during sex, then you must:
- Have consent.
- Be safe.
- Build your choking technique gradually.
- Communicate with your partner to make sure you’re doing it right.
- Be safe.
Be safe and have fun everyone!
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